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This page is dedicated to loss and breavement. Anyone who has any information that can be added to this page please email me @ lesley_powys@talktalk.net

                                                                He Is Gone

You can shed tears that he is gone

Or you can smile because he has lived

You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back

Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left

Your heart can be empty because you can't see him

Or you can be full of the love that you shared

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday

Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember him and only that he is gone

Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back

Or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

Having  just lost Daniel  31 / 12 /07       I am heartbroken

Daniel isnt the first child I have lost I have also lost two babies under different circumstances Baby Callum & Baby Bump  I have also had a number of miscarriges. Lost my dad, nana & grandad and other close relatives and friends. I have also lost a vast amount of my beloved animals. All of these losses have broke my heart but nothing in this world ever prepares a mother for the loss of a child.

                                  God`s Lent Boy

                                 I’ll lend you for a little while a child of mine, God said,

                               For you to love the while he lives, and mourn for when he’s dead. 

It may be six or seven years, or forty two or three,

But will you, ‘til I call him back, take care of him for me?

He’ll bring his charms to gladden you. And should his stay be brief,

You’ll always have your memories as solace in your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,

But there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn.

I’ve looked this whole world over in my search for teachers true,

And from the folk that crowd life’s lane, I have chosen you.

Now will you give him all your love and not think the labour vain,

Nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again.

I fancy that I heard them say, ‘Dear God Thy will be done’,

For all the joys this child will bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.

We will shelter him with tenderness, we’ll love him while we may,

And for all the happiness we’ve ever known, we’ll ever grateful stay.

But should the angels call him much sooner than we’d planned,

We will brace the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.

Below is a list of breavement web sites if it be a loss of a child, stiill born or neonatal baby, parent, close relative. friend or even a beloved pet animal  Help is available.

www.ccbss.org.uk<wbr>    www.childhoodbereavementnetwork.org.uk<wbr>/   www.childtrauma.org<wbr>/

www.equip.nhs.uk<wbr>/topics<wbr>/bereavement.html   www.sands-lothians.org.uk<wbr>/

www.sands-funeral.com<wbr>     www.sands.org     www.growthhouse.org<wbr>   www.vdbs.org

www.geocities.com<wbr>     www.beyondindigo.com<wbr>/    www.teenwire.com<wbr>  www.coolnurse.com

www.thefuneraldirectory.com<wbr>  www.hospicenet.org    www.Remembered-Forever.org

www.pet-memorial.net   www.anaflora.com   www.all-creatures.org

www.poeticexpressions.co.uk<wbr>/

Death is nothing at all

I have only slipped away into the next room

I am I and you are you

Whatever we were to each other

That we are still

Call me by my old familiar name

Speak to me in the easy way you always used

Put no difference into your tone

Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow

Laugh as we always laughed

At the little jokes we always enjoyed together

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me

Let my name be ever the household word that it always was

Let it be spoken without effort

Without the ghost of a shadow in it

Life means all that it ever meant

It is the same as it ever was

There is absolute unbroken continuity

What is death but a negligible accident?

Why should I be out of mind

Because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you for an interval

Somewhere very near

Just around the corner

All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost

One brief moment and all will be as it was before 

How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!

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Childhood Bereavement Network -The Childhood Bereavement Network is a national resourse for those working with bereaved children and young people, their families and other caregivers

Tel - 020 7843 6309           email - cbn@ncb.org.uk

website - www.childhoodbereavementnetwork.org.uk

post  --  8 Wakley Street   London   EC1V 7QE

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My Angel

You've just walked on ahead of me

And I've got to understand

You must release the ones you love

And let go of their hand.

 

I try and cope the best I can

But I'm missing you so much

If I could only see you

And once more feel your touch.

 

Yes, you've just walked on ahead of me

Don't worry I'll be fine

But now and then I swear I feel

Your hand slip into mine.

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SLEEP SOFTLY

Sleep soft dear child in Heavenly peace
as angels now surround thee;
Released from mortal chains of earth
your time here was decreed.

 Yet though our hearts be troubled
and cold like winter chill;
The love that burned will always shine
on a destiny now fulfilled.

 Ours not to ask the reason why
this hill we had to climb,
as we held and touched a special gift
for just a little time.

 A new star burns so brightly now
and always will be here;
Within our hearts, within our souls
to chase away the tears.

 We think now of the wondrous things;
The birth, the joy and love;
Not given, but lent for a while
and returned to Heaven above.

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THEY SAY THAT TIME HEALS, BUT THAT IS ONLY PARTLY TRUE, FOR IF TIME TRULY HEALED, WE WOULD FORGET AND THAT WE WILL NEVER DO.

DAN Our Specail Boy
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